I hope M and his wife can come to terms with their different styles of poly. I'm rather shocked she assumes just because she wants multiple lovers, that he just wants one (you) (so far at least). I think it's fairly common to focus on one new love at a time, especially since it's such early days and you haven't even had intercourse yet!
Have a great time tonight. Looking forward to the update!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years