Just because there is no piece of paper binding Murf and I in the eyes of the govt it doesn't make our relationship on a lesser plane than Butch and I. His wants and needs are just as important .
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.