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Old 09-10-2013, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted by gorgeouskitten View Post
I'd agree with you Marcus, but im curious if she meant they have an actual master/slave dynamic, or do some d/s in the bedroom. I do some d/s with both my guys, but it never leaves the bedroom, so has no impact on our regular lives or other relationships. I wouldnt be ok with that
The D/s impact on her life seems to be pretty serious...

Originally Posted by Petunia View Post
I have been trying to separate the love from dependency. I have stepped back from the D/s as it has totally messed up my autonomy. I put myself through all sorts of hell learning to be less independent, more compliant, more accepting of someone else controlling my life, just to be cut loose with no interest in my well-being.
Me: male, 43, straight, non-hierarchical, independent
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