Originally Posted by Ilove2men
If that's what he wants he can just go. There's no reason for the theatrics or to lie and say that he wants to save our relationship more than anything in the world. I could ask him if that's what it is, but would he tell me the truth? Would i believe it if it was?
This is just a thought, remember. I am not in his head but I am in mine. I brought this up to be explored so please don't stop considering other options. This type of passive termination of relationships is something I am very cautious about because of my history. I still watch out for this in my relationship with Redpepper but it is just a thought.
Will he tell the truth? I probably would not have in my marriage but I may have expressed my concerns and the relationship may have been given another chance before I destroyed my family.