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Old 09-09-2013, 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
My issue, personally, is always about when someone in a relationship makes rules for their partner's relationships in order to preserve and lord their couplehood over others.
Originally Posted by alibabe_muse View Post
Why do they need to meet your spouse or vice versa? It just doesn't make any sense to me aside from it being a control thing.
This is the issue, it is either a request or it is a demand - it can't be both (no matter how it is worded).

If "no" is not an acceptable answer then it was not a question... it was a demand (again, no matter how it is worded).

Originally Posted by ColorsWolf View Post
I think because I love to be every moment I can with someone I love, I mean literally think "joined at the hip" kind of constant closeness... I also have no boundaries
Off hand, I can't think of a worse kind of torture than to be in this kind of relationship. At least the Borg get cool tech implants.
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