I have the rare luxury of it being completely irrelevant to my life, seeing as fluid bonding is forever off the table with me to start with.
And I say "luxury" for one reason only: no need to meddle in what I see as a partner's private life. Their sex life, their STD risk, their business - not mine. It allows me to set a clearer boundary than would be possible if there were a chance of getting infected myself... I know I'd struggle with the feeling of being meddling/nosy if I had to weigh up their privacy versus my bodily health; this way, I can leave their privacy completely untouched.
Last edited by InsaneMystic; 09-09-2013 at 04:10 AM.