Originally Posted by polytriad
Such as why I'm leaving and in the essence of being honest I would tell them....thus making me go back on my word and making me look like I cant handle it.
I don't see how open honest communication about your feelings in a situation is going back on your word. Did you promise not to say anything or did you promise not to act on anything?
I wouldn't recommend making promises that involve you having to sit on your feelings and not communicate.