Then stay monogamous instead of forcing rules upon others. You have the right to have your cake and eat it too. But your third has to play by your rules.. nice.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.