With Kip, he is D, I am s. The dynamic does not come into play in our general relationship. Sometimes he tries to pull the Master card during conversation but I don't go for it if I don't want to :P
Prof is D, I am s. Also does not come into play.
Yo had no idea idea I was s until I told him that is what I was doing with the other 2. He was quite surprised that I have a subby side. So does not come into play there either.
I am a strong personality at work and with parenting. Friends have been surprised that I enjoy subbing so much. I love to give up control but if the guys wanted to do it outside of the scene then I probably wouldn't go for it. The power exchange is pretty much limited to play time for me.
Me: mid 40s female
Mr Dom: late 40s. 6 months
Prof: 50s. 3 years.