I sympathize. I could have written much of what you did.
I appreciate reading all the responses to your post.
Sometimes I wish I could make him/them see what it looks like from their words and actions/inactions, and want to change for for the better. Bit I can't and its not my place. All i can do is state my needs and choose to stay, take a break, or leave.
(Right now I'm on a break... Not as devastating as I had anticipated because I have self esteem these days).
Hugs to you and hope your road smoother out sooner than later.
Me - self defined as monogamish: currently physically monoganous, emotionally poly
Sunshine - my committed partner, poly, married to S
S - my metamour, poly, married to Sunshine, multiple partners
Last edited by Precious1; 09-05-2013 at 08:46 PM.