Originally Posted by herstory
Well he reconnected with an old fling and they had unprotected sex. He avoided hanging out with me when we could be intimate and then a week later told me what had happened.
He was honest with you and did not put your health at risk. This gave you the opportunity to make an informed decision about what protection you should use with him until he gets tested again an is all clear. To me, that is a good sign of a healthy relationship.
Since he obviously is having an issue with using protection with this particular partner and you don't trust that everyone is clean... use condoms with him or don't have sex with him. Are you upset because he's putting your health at risk or because he's not doing what he's told? I don't really understand what the problem is.