Originally Posted by Inyourendo
I would not personally close any of my relationships and yes, I do think it would be terribly unfair if I had a partner who was married and they wanted me (their secondary) to only see them.
and his wife of course. but point taken. my own spouse just gave me an earful about how my feelings on this were not in fairness to Nudge, as I have dated and for all i know could want to again. He HAS committed time to me and does on a regular basis. I guess this is more about my own insecurity than our time together