We just live our lives. I do not have to explain my choices to everyone. If people have a problem they can move on out of my life. I do not feel the need to scream my life choices from the roof tops. I live all aspects of my life that way.
My kids see me with both my husband and my bf. Dad is dad Murf is Murf. They know both guys love and care about them very much. That is all they care about. They are 6 and 10.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.