Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
However feels right to you.
I don't lie to my kids. My boyfriend lives with us. All of the kids know we love each other and we are a couple just like mommy and daddy are a couple.
Currently, I am sitting in the rain by a raging campfire with bf and the 2 youngest kids (13 & 6yrs). Dh was here but has to work tomorrow so went home a day early.
Our oldest is almost 22. Her sons are 2 yrs and 3 months. They also see me with both Dh & bf.
Additionally-family, friends, coworkers, classmates know because they see. We kiss hello/goodbye, hold hands etc. shrug.
Homestly, it hasnt resulted in drama or negativity. People who are judgmental leave. The people who remain are dependable, open minded, accepting.
Thanks for sharing this. Some of our family, and all of our coworkers know, but I know there will come a day when BF and i are seen in public (we are very affectionate) by someone and the cat will be more out of the back. this gives me hope for the future of being 'out'