I know that because poly is fairly new to all of us (about 9 months now)and so we are having growing pains for sure. I think it is true about the point Marcus made, "There seems to be an assumption that these two people are entitled to splitting your available time and that is not necessarily a good thing." That's been difficult for me as an introvert - I crave a bit of alone time to recharge.
Its also difficult because my boyfriend is very needy and because my husband isn't much of a talker. I communicate nonstop but he has difficulty sharing his feelings. It can be frustrating at times.
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