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Old 09-03-2013, 05:24 PM
Precious1 Precious1 is offline
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 34

[QUOTE=Marcus;226285]Let me see if I'm following you.

You got a job offer in a different state.
Sunshine says, "You should take it, I'll move out there with you"

Close, no job offer. He asked me if i would look for one out of state. I still have good knowledge of the area and connections in my field where I lived while my ex and i were in the miltary.

Thanks for all the perspectives. I take them all to heart.
For the moment I am taking a step back to assess my needs in this relationship, and while I do that, if he wishes to address the issues in his marriage it is his call, but I will still take them and his willingness to face them (or not) into consideration in regards to ours. We do have a counselor lined up to assist us in clarifying our needs to each other.

My Family:
Me - self defined as monogamish: currently physically monoganous, emotionally poly
Sunshine - my committed partner, poly, married to S
S - my metamour, poly, married to Sunshine, multiple partners
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