Originally Posted by Precious1
My thinking is yes. I love my partner and would be thrilled to move with him, but if he is unwilling to force communication to resolving issues in their relationship and appears to seek avoiding confrontation or rejection, he would be willing and able to do so with me as well. So I would love to step back so that focus on our time does not hinder that process (hopefully to a psotive outcome for their marriage), and/or if they are unwilling to face their issues to give me time to reconsider the relationship.
Yes.. In the scheme of things you always need to be true to yourself first. If this makes you uncomfortable.. then you need to step away. Whether temporarily or on a more long term basis.
Best of luck