Thank you both so much for your well thought out responses. To the first poster your post was thoughtful and insightful. I did not seem negative but realistic. I assure you I have a good head on my shoulders and know about age appropriate sharing.
( although we are very open with them. Thank you for your advice. To the second poster I suspect you are right and will look that up. The lines of communication are open and hubby was actually feeling some jealousy in the last week, I also happened to be suck. We talked about it, he even looked it up. So for right now things are great and I need to realize this is brand new and the first relationship I have ever had with another women. Thank you both so much. I look forward to your advice and insight in the future.