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Old 09-01-2013, 11:51 PM
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This feels very familiar to me, you cannot change for anyone, sadly in the situation you have found yourself in, you will always be the one expected to accommodate She is not going to deal with her issues since she has become the victim in her mind.

Eventually her behaviour will start to turn you off, you'll feel less romantically inclined towards her, this in turn activates her insecurity more and you'll find more rules and restrictions placed on your other relationship, which the man will follow because he doesn't want to hurt her and accommodating her is just the dynamic they have.

You'll get fed up eventually and move on, it's just the nature of these things. I am sorry for the bs though
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