Originally Posted by GroundedSpirit
And that was funny about your GF. You can probably have some fun with that.
What's that GS? Do you mean how she dressed more like the other girl that I introduced her to, so therefore she was "trying" rather than just being herself?
For example, lets say that he is more attractive than me in 8 ways, and I'm only more attractive than him in 3 ways. It is really tough to deal with. I'm not literally counting, but that's how I feel.
Now, if he and I were different and attractive each in 8 or so different ways. That would be much more easy to deal with. Even with differences, there would be balance.
On the other hand, I feel like I have balanced differences with her husband. I feel no anxiety when she is with him, which is very important because she is with him more often than she is with either of us.
I feel emotional pain, but it is still worth it to me.