@theresnoquestion, you're in a good forum to start. Try the "Golden Nuggets" page sticky. You'll see a thread on book recommendations there. http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1830
Also try tag searches for any terms that interest you. I think you'll be surprised at how many words are used as tags. For example, you could try to search the term "children." ("Search" is the sixth from the left drop down option on the first darker blue bar across the top of your screen.) I hope that helps.