There are a lot of men and women who are specifically attracted to BBW (Big Beautiful Women). They don't like the "skin and bones" look, they want someone who enjoys life, enjoys food, and is comfortable in their own skin. I, personally, find really skinny girls to be unattractive. I like the feel of some cushioning when I cuddle!! I like it this time of year, when my husband gets a bit of a pot belly, and it gives me somewhere soft to rest my head instead of his usual bony hips... Don't disparage! If your husband married you, he loves the way you look...
“As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.” —bisexualbaker