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Old 09-01-2013, 04:58 PM
Precious1 Precious1 is offline
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 34
Default appropriate to suggest break?

Asking for opinion...
Would you think it inappropriate to take a short break, if your partner requested that you seek employment in another state and promised to follow you, without discussing with their spouse first.. in what is percieved to be an way to force the issue if the spouse really wanted to be with your partner?

My thinking is yes. I love my partner and would be thrilled to move with him, but if he is unwilling to force communication to resolving issues in their relationship and appears to seek avoiding confrontation or rejection, he would be willing and able to do so with me as well. So I would love to step back so that focus on our time does not hinder that process (hopefully to a psotive outcome for their marriage), and/or if they are unwilling to face their issues to give me time to reconsider the relationship.

Thoughts, suggestions?

My Family:
Me - self defined as monogamish: currently physically monoganous, emotionally poly
Sunshine - my committed partner, poly, married to S
S - my metamour, poly, married to Sunshine, multiple partners

Last edited by Precious1; 09-01-2013 at 05:09 PM. Reason: spelling error, dang autocorrect!
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