Originally Posted by redsirenn
I am so glad you wrote this. THIS is the basis for a thread I started a while back about needs... PLUS, needing someone to fill a need, is quite needy, isn't it... ew.
Well I find it a bit ew. But each to their own. I don't think one can necessarily tell at first. Sometimes NRE gets in the way and things are doing well, so why look at it. It seems to come to the surface in time sometimes. I have found out later or chosen not to pay attention before and then feel used or like I had the wool pulled over my eyes.