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Old 09-01-2013, 10:10 AM
london london is offline
Join Date: May 2013
Location: UK - land of the free
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Maybe you either need to find a primary style relationship of your own where you have those kind of practical entanglements or you need to find partners who are openly polyamorous and wouldn't have those rules about PDAs and the like. Many poly people do not partake in secondary style relationships where they are "in the closet" for the very reasons you have stated. Others, usually those with primary style entanglements of their own and not very liberal families are suited to the "in the closet" secondary relationships and seek them out specifically. It doesn't mean they love their secondary partner(s) less, it just means they know they won't be doing the whole family thing with them.
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