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Old 08-31-2013, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted by CattivaGattina View Post
And I realized that Lamian either doesn't realize (what I think I believe is more likely) or doesn't care she's causing me such distress.
And if she doesn't realize it, and nobody tells her, how is she ever going to?

I know it's difficult to "rock the boat" when you're stuck living with them, but why shouldn't all the cards be on the table? I TOLD my ex why I didn't want to watch TV with him after we separated but were still living together. He didn't get it, but I at least told him where I was coming from.

How is the hunt for the new place going? Hoping for the best...
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