Not willing. He apparently made plans last month to go out of town this weekend (I learned about it yesterday). I know cancelling wasn't an option for him as the point of the trip was to see someone he is semi-romantically entangled with. Yesterday, though? He went grocery shopping. That's why he couldn't talk.
I'll get over it. I just really dislike feeling like damaged goods and managing to find (or create) relationships that reinforce that feeling.