Originally Posted by JacobJT
Bookbug, glad you got a laugh out of it!
But I honestly have to admit to having a part of me that tells me that! And you'd be amazed at the feedback I've gotten on non poly friendly dating boards. More than a few people out there respond to it reflexively as an innately feminine perspective and objective, to try and maximize multiple partner's submission into a configuration that serves their hypergamic goals (unconscious, largely) and desires.
I can honestly say that I am not familiar with the non-poly dating boards, but I can say it smacks of sexism in the worst way. It's like the old double-standard: a guy sleeps around a lot and he's a stud; a woman sleeps around a lot and she's a whore. This women's agenda paranoia sounds like crap from a bunch of territorial knuckle-draggers who wouldn't know what to do with a successful, competent woman if they had one. And I'm quite sure they seldom do - and if so, not for long.