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Old 08-30-2013, 04:12 AM
Dutchguy78 Dutchguy78 is offline
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What do you mean, why not choose for her?

Ourt kid is 7.

Yes and the thing is that nothing is really lost or missing, so that has to be a good thing, there is no motivation to replace anything. She is still attentive and loving, even more so possibly. All there is for me is curiosity. Can I give love to 2 women, can I share that and have warm feelings? Can I have this sort of fun and excitement as well? I know I am a very warm person who has an abundance of love to give and I want to find out.

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Originally Posted by dingedheart View Post
Why not choose for her ? Why does she get to choose.

How old is your kid or kids ?


I'm not sure anyone can judge your mindset or motivation in dating for yourself.


I agree it might not be healthy or respectful to a new partner if your only motivation was to date because your wife is . I think the number of people who do that are small. I see it as more of replacing what was was lost or missing in the current relationship. Also what about simple pleasure of Fun , excitement, freedom ....having needs met, etc.
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