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Old 08-30-2013, 03:37 AM
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Originally Posted by london View Post
She was okay with the non monogamy thing but he found that he couldn't handle her seeing other people, so we are no longer seeing each other. It sucks, but it wasn't surprising.
Out of nosy curiosity, does she identify as non-monogamous a priori, or was she just willing to give it a go if that's what he wanted? Seems like he's just asking to be stuck in a loop. But if she was "take it or leave it" then I guess it could work... But probably better if he learned to deal with his own jealousy rather than avoiding it.
As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.
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