Thank you for sharing that. It's good to be reminded that there's nothing wrong with re-opening a discussion that you've had a hundred times before, just to make sure you're all still on the same page. This is something my husband and I struggle with: if we work something out once, we tend to think of it as having been dealt with, but sometimes things sneak out and I realize that I don't have complete closure with this or that issue.
I don't need labels to define me. They're sticky and I hate the glue they leave behind.