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Old 08-28-2013, 02:48 PM
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Yes, but how is that fair to BF?.
Because I'm annoying enough to answer a question with a question, how is it UNfair to your BF? Are you taking something away from him that he would otherwise be receiving?

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My feelings around this issue also include the fact that he is NOT reaping the benefits of this. It just feels icky to me. Maybe I need to explore the "why" of that more.
Digging and exploring is always good. It's a hard process, but (for me) the results have been well worth it.
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