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Old 08-28-2013, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by willowstar View Post
Yes, but how is that fair to BF?.
Because I'm annoying enough to answer a question with a question, how is it UNfair to your BF? Are you taking something away from him that he would otherwise be receiving?

Originally Posted by willowstar View Post
My feelings around this issue also include the fact that he is NOT reaping the benefits of this. It just feels icky to me. Maybe I need to explore the "why" of that more.
Digging and exploring is always good. It's a hard process, but (for me) the results have been well worth it.
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