Originally Posted by london
Seems perfectly clear that she understood sex with the op would be banned and instead of saying 'of course i am going to fuck the guy i'm engaged to. Go to hell', she agreed to those conditions. Making out she is some sort of abuse victim is delusional thinking of someone in total denial.
Agreed. While playing the 'she's not sure of herself' card is a popular sterotype, I think taking people at face value and moving on with life is a lot easier than questioning the validity of the message. These are adults living their lives, regardless of the semantics of words. The choices are made. Why create drama for the sake of challenging a disagreeable answer?