Originally Posted by Flowerchild
To me, the question is, what about outside parties? If you're on a date, and you're wearing a ring, and your partner isn't, it looks like you're cheating. Do you care about that? Possibly not, I'm not saying you should either way.
I never got my husband a ring and after almost 18 years of marriage I doubt any outside parties have ever thought I was cheating on my spouse with him. Not all men wear or even get rings. He's thought about getting it tattoo'd and if that's what he does want to do, then he'll do it. Funny I never once thought about it. I really wonder how many people we've come across all these years thought he wasn't my spouse.