Thanks for the welcome!
Already I'm finding some things a challenge and not really a problem with non-monogamy per se. I'm actually fine with the sex part, but the more emotional based side is like a scary minefield to ME! Definitely one to read on it all and quite another to live it!
My wife is comfortable herself and no longer stresses about it as before. She worries about me and has tried to help me, but its more at the point now where she's right that I have to deal with my demons myself. Only so much she can do.
She's handling it all much better than I or S are. Maybe women are better at soul searching and communicating emotions?? I think so.
Natja, I will message you, so thanks for that.