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Old 08-26-2013, 06:19 PM
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Originally Posted by london View Post
That's a very risky premise to live by because "super uncomfortable" and "a little" are subjective terms. Your intention to "break someone out of their comfort zone a little" could actually become an oppressive form of coercion that dismisses someone's needs and choices, inevitably making them and consequently, your relationship, deeply unhappy.
London, well i meant it as a form of discussion...if I might be pushing my boyfriend for discussion a little, he can tell he hes uncomfortable and tell me to stop and i'll listen, maybe he doesnt mind going outside his comfort zone a little but he'd have to tell me if i was doing something that was harming our relationship (likewise for my spouse)
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