My advice would be wear the ring.
Trust me as soon as Murf asked me out on a date we had the I would love to go out with you but there is something you should know conversation.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.