Originally Posted by gorgeouskitten
so all of you are already talking about wedding rings here....my spouse has a date on thursday, his OKC account plainly states we are poly but he wants to broach it with her in person. I suggested maybe he not wear his ring...thoughts?
Taking the ring off does not negate the fact that he is married and poly/dating, so is there a positive benefit of him taking it off? Giving off the appearance of being single, available, or whatever?
I will admit that my thinking is different these days, and I hope that people see my ring and realise I am "off-limits" because I have chosen to be.