Originally Posted by Flowerchild
Everyone on here appears to be concerned whether the person they're looking to date is okay with their ring or not....would you really want to give the idea to anyone interested in you that you were single?
To me, the question is, what about outside parties? If you're on a date, and you're wearing a ring, and your partner isn't, it looks like you're cheating. Do you care about that? Possibly not, I'm not saying you should either way.
But to me, that should really be the only concern. Anyone you're dating, who has a problem with seeing the ring, probably isn't the best fit, anyway. Like the spouse with the date....his date has the right to know, from the start, that he's married. Why deceive her about it when you don't have to?
I do think about the middle part there, my boyfriend (also married) doesnt wear a ring, and I do, so sometimes i do dislike it that it may look like we are cheating.
As for my spouse with his date, he has no intention of decieving her (shes been on his profile that says hes poly) i just thought maybe he'd be more confortable