I don't meet any new potential partners without taking along one of my current partners.
For me; there's the safety if I were to meet someone online (which has only happened once) &
there is the ensuring that the new person KNOWS without a doubt that when I say I am HAPPILY involved with two men-I mean HAPPILY and that it isn't a "sneaky fuck behind the wall" thing or a "maybe she'll leave if I'm good enough" situation either.
It has evolved into a boundary because it's how I am-and they've taken that on for themselves as well. But it was always that way for me (I was in open relationships prior to marrying Maca).
I always ensure that anyone I start talking to knows within minutes about both Maca and GG. I always ensure that Maca and GG knows about the other person the same day.
"Love As Thou Wilt"