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Old 08-26-2013, 03:27 AM
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Originally Posted by alibabe_muse View Post
So what I am asking is those who have a thought on this: how soon after the first date, if there is a second, do you introduce a potential interest to your current partners?
I think of my romantic partners with the same courtesy and priority assignment as I do my good friends.

If I meet a new buddy, we hang out, enjoy each others company and I want to introduce him to some of my other crew... I see if he wants to join us for some kind of future get together. My friends would never DREAM of telling me when I need to introduce my new friend. We are all adults in which none of us claim any ownership of each others lives.

So my approach to the situation would be "do they want to meet my partner?" If the answer is "yes" then I try to arrange a meeting for us that would be fun for everyone, if the answer is "no" then I do not.
Me: male, 43, straight, non-hierarchical, independent
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