Finding the time...
I'm married to my wonderful wife of 4 years and we've recently discovered that we want to try poly. We have no children but have 6 dogs...yeah we're into animal rescue. During the week we work, clean during weekends, take care of the dogs, etc. Though I don't know what it's like to have children, the only real free time is on weekends. We stay busy with life. My questions are: How are poly relationships supposed to grow with such little availability? How fair is it to the person(s) we are dating? Will the person(s) we date be just as busy (assuming we are dating within our age of 30 to 40)?