Thanx Kitten, we discussed it a bit more last night. She now knows we are soon going to be figuring things out a bit between us, and then my partner and I will talk more.
@ NYC -- It's nice to know we can resurrect on this forum. That's actually quite helpful.
I did search prior to posting, and did not find precisely what I needed based on my current circumstance.
I'll try some other online resources -- blogs, PolyWeekly, etc.