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Old 08-24-2013, 06:16 PM
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I suggest reading this forum -- the search button is your friend! Do a few searches for some terms you think are relevant. There are probably a gazillion threads here already addressing how to bring this up to partners and potential partners. I think that, very often, it is helpful to read what others have written already, even if it goes back a few years. And it's fine to resurrect old threads here.

Good luck!
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