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Originally Posted by evad
I just put in another thread, but my journey to overcome this was realizing it wasn't a competition.
T is with me because she wants to be with me. I don't have to do anything better or more often than other men in her life. I just have to be me. That's what attracted her in the first place, and that's what keeps her involved.
I try to be supportive of her other relationships, but there are times when I voice my concerns. I do preface it with, "I understand that I might be biased here, and it's completely your decision, but I'm concerned about X." That only occurs when she's stressed out though. If she seems happy, I don't comment other than to be glad her other men are making her happy.
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So there's no inherent jealousy to be had for her physical relations with other men? Is that just how it always was for you, or was it learned?