Originally Posted by Marcus
Once I discover that my partner is paranoid about their details and doesn't trust me to be careful with them... my guess is that relationship is not going to be very intimate.
That goes the other way, too. Before getting too carried away for the first time I asked both my married partners what level of detail their wives would be privy to. If they'd given me the impression that everything was going to be discussed then there wouldn't have been anything taking place worth talking about. You can call it paranoia if you wish, I just call it none of their business.