Welcome to our forum.
I am also in a closed MFM V, I am one of the arms/guys of the V. We've been together like this since 2006, and by now, we think of it as second nature. Still, we are not out to our friends and family for the most part.
I hope you'll enjoy your time on our site; we have a lot of collective wisdom here. Have a look around at our various threads, and post any questions you may have.
Good to have you with us.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"