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Old 08-22-2013, 10:43 AM
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Been reading your blog for a while now and haven't really popped my head in, but DAMN, does it sound like you need a hug... So here, take one. Or two. Or four.

You don't deserve to be treated like the bad guy, and from what you said above, it sounds like he's been using avoidance and deflection maneuvers left and right (not fully informing Lamian of what's going on, using you as the scapegoat), and maybe he's mad that it didn't work, and projecting that anger on the both of you.

Here's hoping he calms down and has an honest talk with you about it. And here's another hug.
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