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Old 08-22-2013, 03:24 AM
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In a perfect world

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I shouldn't need to speak up about a metamour mistreating me,
But sometimes I have to.

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my partner should already be making sure that doesn't happen.
But sometimes he doesn't.

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I shouldn't need rules to ensure my partner(S) protect and maintain our relationship,
But sometimes couples mutually choose to create rules.

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that should be something they do naturally. I don't want to babysitting anyone. I don't want to have to speak for my partner, I don't want to have to overrule him, I don't want to have to have his relationships for him. If he needs that much help to maintain simple levels of decency, maybe he doesn't have the right mentality for maintaining multiple relationships.
True, but sometimes he slips up..... hell, sometimes I slip up and act the fool!!!

We're humans not machines! :-)
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