Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
Welcome to the forum. If you are looking to learn-I suggest dropping into the blog page and the general page and reading through some threads.
I've dropped by those pages several times over the past few months. It's interesting to see other perspectives on various situations.
Originally Posted by kdt26417
Welcome to our forum.
Sounds a little unbalanced if you just have the one guy and he has three women. Not saying that can't work out in some situations, but perhaps it's one of the reasons why you find yourself questioning?
Anyway, keep checking out different parts of the forum, and post any thoughts, questions, or concerns. I'm glad you could join us.
It does seem a bit unbalanced but that part honestly doesn't bother me that much. I'm conflicted because my parents/family are the ultra conservative, religious, save yourself for marriage types. They have no idea about my current lifestyle and there are some real consequences that I'll likely have to deal with later. Plus, I've got some other hangups that I'm working through.
Based on his prior experiences my BF always thought of his relationships as f-buddy/fwb's type of situations. Just recently he realized that with the right people and mindset it can be so much more meaningful. We are learning from each other.
If I'm up to it and have the time I'll post more detail later.
Thanks everyone for the welcome.